Imagined a night with a lovely LDR sex toy?
It’s a lovely night and you are alone, you work all day in your office and gets tired mentally, you need a vent to take all the stress out, you pour yourself a glass of your favorite drink and put on some music. You curl up in your bed alone but it feels really cold on your skin, the lack of warmth irritates you, your partner stays far away in some other city and you crave the intense sensations of their touch, smell, words, and emotions. What a baseless relationship it is, your tired and lonely mind might make you think that.
You get yourself an LDR sex toy thinking it might change your life or spice up your relationship. Well, you come home back the next day, create an aura just like the other day, and facetime your partner with your laptop. You chat for a while and then you ask him to install an app and surprise him by disclosing about the toy. You undress and touch every bit of your body in front of him only to make your partner go crazy over the video call, wanting to jump out the screen and do you right there. You insert your sex toy in your favorite hole and ask your partner to make you cum however he wants to. The time, the intensity, the kind of sensation, your partner gets to decide all of it and then, the toy starts its magic, you moan some and moan some more and your partner masturbates seeing you like that. You cum and ask him to stop, but no dear, the ball is in your partner’s court. He makes your body shiver by increasing the intensity and you are helpless and high with all the vibrations running up and down your spine. You cum and fall back on your bed, delighted. Your partner spends an amazing time masturbating to you and that’s what you call a perfect night.
What are Teledildonics?
“Teledildonics is a technology for remote sex, where tactile sensations are communicated over a data link between the participants. The term can also refer to the integration of telepresence with sexual activity that these interfaces make possible.” Source ~Wikipedia
Boiling down this definition to the easiest vocabulary possible, teledildonics is a technology which allows the communication of sexual activities through mediums like sex toys, robotic toys, over a long distance to make it possible for couples to have intimacy and satisfaction even after being far away from each other. Maybe it can make their relationships work for a longer period of time. It is also a great technology for single people to experience the pleasures they totally deserve.
Couples might sign up for a lot of issues while commencing their relationships but distance can still be considered the worst of them all. Leaves no choice but to demise. It is really helpful that this generation has worked for bringing couples closer by the means of technology, from communication mediums to even…. sexual mediums.
So our brilliant sex toy industry has come up with the all-new and widely loved long-distance relationship sex toy technology that allows the users to connect with sex toys over a long distance, be it any corner of the world and curb the hurt that LDRs cause and make your relationships suck a little less.
There are many queries and confusion around the usage of LDR toys, like are these toys reliable? Would they be able to keep me connected over a very long distance? Are they safe to use? Would they track or save data from our devices? How do we trust if these apps are not a hoax? Well, queries are genuine but our sex toys are more!
For sure, the mediums of communication have worked very well for couples so far. Voice calling and face timing is a mandatory ritual in LDRs but they simply can’t match the level of ecstasy and happiness these LDR sex toys can give you! What is up with just the chatting and seeing when you can actually make your partner’s toes curl at your fingertips. Yumm!
The perfect Teledildonics buying guide!
Dear readers, we have reviewed long-distance relationship toys from around the global market to provide you a perfect buying guide for a heavenly and perfect LDR toy experience with your partners and make it possible for you to have intense orgasms with your partners even from a distance.
As the sex toys’ market is a honeycomb we have churned out the very best and the most reliable sellers to choose from and have made it easy for you to choose from a wide range of types, shapes, and colors easily as our list is highly versatile and we have only the best-handpicked products!
Have a look at our listicle and once you are done reading it, we are very sure that you’d have a clear choice in your mind and you’d be ready to just buy and enjoy!
Hold your ass and get ready for the sass!
Best Long Distance Sex Toys Ranked by TwerkingButt.com
Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl2 –
Topper of Teledildonics 2020 by TwerkingButt
This interactive set will fill in the gap between all the long-distance love birds. They are both very powerful and feel really nice to touch, light-weight and soft. You can even avail the option of enjoying the life-like experience on VR or you can sync it with your favorite virtual sex video game (if you’re into that). You can use them alone or with your lover, it will surely provide you the best orgasm you’ve ever had!
It offers excellent efficiency of around 140 strokes per minute with very low motor sound which ensures that your experience isn’t compromised at all. They both come with an authenticity card and quick manual to assemble the parts. The combination of a firm vibrator and a soft male masturbator is perfect and lets you complete all kinds of fantasies you’ve imagined. They have USB charging ports to recharge and use again and again.
The set is available for same sex couples as well, so, no one is disappointed.
Materials: ABS, POM
Finish: Matte and silver
Size: 8.9X7.9X26.3cm
Opening Hole Size: 4.5X4
Hole Height: 16.5cm
What you get in the box:
- USB Charging cable
- Authenticity Card
- Quick Setup Manual
Pros:
- Safe to use on skin
- Capable of providing hands-free orgasm
- Slick and slim design
Cons:
- Sometimes
- Takes around 3 hours to charge completely
- Creates noises as well which isn’t wanted by many people
- Not waterproof
Lovense Max and Nora
2nd Runner Up in our Best Sex Toys for Couples Category
Just like a beautiful couple in love, Max and Nora are also the made-for-each-other sex toy couple who totally fit and match with each other. If you are a couple and are looking for a pair of LDR sex toys, well Max and Nora are here to delight you and your loins with beautiful design and nasty deeds. Oh yes!
Talking about MAX, the 6’th generation max is an attractive fleshlight highly desired by every male because max has got the sass!
Our NORA is no less. She is a fierce beauty and a highly competent rabbit plug vibrator with insanely advanced features desired by every female and her vagina.
MAX and NORA are the best sex toys in the town and can also be the best valentines’s gifts! They have in-built sensors that would make you feel your partner’s movements. These apps are totally safe to use with end to end encryption.
You can record your sessions, even the audio, all the moans, and the hotness, in your device and can play them over and over.
Battery: Li-ion Rechargeable
Length: –
Power Type: Rechargeable (USB)
Recharge time: ~160 minutes
Material: ABS / Skin-like TPE
Flexibility: Firm
Waterproof: Yes IPX 7 waterproof
Allergens: Latex-Free
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Pros:
- Wireless connectivity
- Long battery life
- Smooth motions and aesthetically attractive
Cons:
- Takes more than 2.5 hours to charge completely
- Slightly heavy
Kiiroo Fleshlight Launch and Fuse
Kirroo Fleshlight Launch & Fuse made it #3
Like every engine needs an ignition kick-start to work, every relationship requires some passion and a lot of heat to keep it going which makes it much better than a regular vanilla relationship.
But if you use a sex toy, you would obviously want it to be comfortable and luscious looking. This combo is the perfect partner that provides comfort and is aesthetically pleasing. The slick design of the fuse is perfect for fitting inside the female’s body, providing her with the massage and thrust at her pleasure points, while the fleshlight launcher is extremely soft and gives a real-like feeling when touched. The LED present on the device provides you the visual feedback return as well and one of the most innovative features of this is that it is touch-sensitive.
You can either control the device by yourself or let your partner do it. It’s a back and forth connection, both the partners can use it at the same time and have the experience of virtual sex.
If you want to experience the best kind of virtual sex, then you can even avail the option of connecting it to the webcams or VR devices, this is a game-changer and will make your virtual sex life more and more real and you would want to have it again and again. Even the webcam models use this product, so you can guess that it is one of the finest quality products present in the market.
To me it’s the long distance sex toy massager.
Diameter: 3-7 cm diameter
Length: 20 cm
Insertable Length: Varies as per the model
Power Type: Rechargeable (USB)
Material: Silicone
Flexibility: Not flexible
Waterproof: No
Allergens: Latex-Free
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Pros:
- Bluetooth connectivity is very efficient
- Efficiency up to 180 strokes per minute
- For couples as well as solo players
Cons:
- Size may be big for some people
- Not very easy to clean
- Can’t be held by 1 hand easily
Desire prostate vibrator
Ranked #4
Want to give your tushy a gift while you’re away from your partner? Here is the perfect option for you! The Desire luxury mobile application controlled prostate vibrator is a game-changer for you in your long-distance relationship. This small vibrator is extremely strong when it comes to the intensity at which it vibrates when started, it has got 8 different patterns of vibrations and each of these levels has 12 different intensities. You can use this little gladiator with your partner or even when you’re far away from them. The prostate bulb fits perfectly in your tushy and gives you the pleasure of your lifetime.
The bulb is made of velvet silicone and the slightly curved shaft is very flexible and goes inside the hole and gives you the fulfillment that you’ve been longing for by giving you the most desired prostate massage.
This is waterproof and USB rechargeable has a small size which is very convenient to use wherever you take it with you. All you need to do is switch in the app and choose the mode of vibration and the intensity option corresponding to it and you’re good to go.
To get more and more pleasure or in other words, to ‘plug into nirvana’, use a water-based anal lubricant along with it.
Minimum requirements for this product:
Android version: 8.0 (and above) iOS version: 13.0 (and above)
Material Used: Velvet Silicone
Circumference: 4 inches
Flexibility: Flexible
Full length: 5.5 inches
Insertable length: 4.5 inches
Latex: No
Phthalates: No
Waterproof: yes, submersible
Power Type: Rechargeable (USB)
Price: $124.99 onwards
- A lavish app-controlled silicone prostate massager, it is extremely soft.
- 8 routines of vibrations and 12 levels of intensity setup available.
- Flexibility of the shaft ensures the proper stimulation of your arousal spots.
- Battery life isn’t that long
We-Vibe App-Based Couple’s Vibrator
Ranked #5
Have you been missing the concurrent moans you had with your partner while you both took each other through the pedestal of pure pleasure? Well, here we are to help you get that feeling again even though you’re far away from your lover! You can now moan softly or scream together, unify your sounds of lovemaking when the vibrator hits you right where you wanted it to.
The thrilling sense you get when you wear this plug and it starts vibrating is amazing, you would want to just stay like that for as long as possible (and guess what? You can stay like that for as long as you want!). This is a hands-free vibrator; you can just put it in your butthole and let it do the magic and get you high. It comes with a soft remote which can be squeezed and it will change the intensity of vibration as per the strength by which you would hold on to the remote. The more you squeeze, the more stimulation, isn’t that what you wanted?
It gives you 7 patterns of vibrations and each pattern has 3 different intensities, all of them ensuring perfect stimulation. It is connected to the free ‘We-Connect’ app and you can listen to your partner moaning loudly on the phone, irrespective of how far you both might be.
Have fun with this soft, strong and multi-spot arousal device along with a tinge of water-based lubricant.
Battery Info: 1 x CR2032 battery
Material Used: Silicone
Circumference: 4 inches
Flexibility: Flexible
Full length: 3.5 inches
Insertable length: 3 inches
Latex: No
Phthalates: No
Waterproof: yes, submersible
Power Type: Rechargeable
Price: $199.99 onwards
- An amazing pair of vibrators which lets you share the offered vibrations and a great intensity
- Squeezing remote which corresponds the intensity of vibration with the strength of your grip
- Only usable with the free We-Connect App
Clitoral Stimulator
Ranked #6
What if you’re told that you’re going to get wet and melt in the foreplay itself? Not much believable? It’s true, now you can have the wildest stimulation you’ve ever had. This vibrator offers you 12 different levels of sensations that make the least contact with the clit. So, you won’t have to worry about skin inflammation due to excessive rubbing or contact.
Whether you are a solo player or a couple, this little vibrator will be by your side anyway. If you are a couple looking to spice up your sex life by making the foreplay more and more erotic, you came to the correct place. Even when you’re apart, you can connect via the ‘We-Connect’ app and let your partner control the device from anywhere on this planet, and for this, all you need is an active internet connection.
This is a USB rechargeable device, runs for almost 2 hours in a single charge with a slick and smooth silicone design. It even has a sleep setting that gets it ready and waiting for whenever you want to use it. Adding a small amount of water-based lubricant will create a delightful experience for you which will improve the suction flap of the device when it is put in the correct place
Material Used: Silicone
Circumference: 4.25 inches
Flexibility: Flexible
Full length: 4.25 inches
Latex: No
Phthalates: No
Waterproof: yes, submersible
Power Type: Rechargeable
Run-time: 120 minutes per single charge
Price: $149.99 onwards
Pros
- Thin clitoral suction device, perfect for spicing up the foreplay in the bedroom with your partner
- A set of 12, intense as well as soft vibrations giving the best kind of touch to your nerve endings
- You don’t have to worry about getting it wet while using it, it’s completely waterproof.
Cons
- Only the We-Connect™ app can control it.
- Not a long battery life, needs to be recharged again and again.
WE-VIBE Ditto Butt Plug
Ranked #7
Once you put it inside your butt, there’s no going back, you wouldn’t want to pull it out. The level of softness and comfort it provides is really amazing. The slim and soft neck fits perfectly in your butt and gives you rumbling vibrations. While playing with this cute little butt plug, you can choose from more than 10 options available for vibration intensities.
These vibrations can be controlled by either the remote controller provided or the control panel provided at the bottom of the plug.
This is fabricated with soft silicone material that feels very close to real skin touch and gives you a wide range of vibrations ranging from soft to extremely high. You can even use this in your foreplay to spice your sex life and also when your partner is away from you. Connect it to the app and you’re good to go, start pleasing your lover by controlling the level of stimulation they’re getting.
For beginners, using it with a water-based lubricant is advised, otherwise, it may cause some harm to your skin if not carried out slowly.
Circumference: 3.75 inches
Insertable Length: 3 inches
Length: 3.5 inches
Flexibility: Flexible
Material: Silicone
Power Type: Rechargeable
Waterproof: Yes, Submersible
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Allergens: Latex-Free
Pros
- Completely remote-controlled with a very comfortable base
- Multiple modes and patterns of vibrations
- Waterproof and easy to clean
- USB rechargeable and directly connected via the ‘We-Connect’ application anywhere around the globe
Cons
- Not very long
- Noise due to vibration may sound unpleasant
Moxie Clitoral Panty Vibrator
Ranked #8
Moxie is yet another cutesy on our list. Although she isn’t just another cutesy, she is capable enough of providing you with throbbing vibrations and making you dripping wet. She comes with a remote controller and a magnetic chip for you to put her inside your panties and let her do her magic. Using her in your regular sex-life can also be fruitful, she will spice up your game in bed and get your partner nice and wet even before you touch her with your bare hands.
Moxie is thin and extremely smooth, feels very real to touch, and can give you the softest, as well as the hardest strokes you can imagine. You can control her from anywhere on this planet via the ‘We-Connect’ mobile application and please your partner even after being thousands of kilometers away from them. She works up to 2 hours in a single charge and you can recharge her with the USB charger provided in the box.
Sprinkle moxie with a water-based lubricant and you’re in for an adventurous ride!
Circumference: 3 inches
Length: 3.5 inches
Run Time: 120 minutes
Power Type: Rechargeable
Flexibility: Rigid
Material: Silicone
Waterproof: Yes, Submersible
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Allergens: Latex-Free
Pros
- Rumbly yet whisper-quiet and rechargeable remote-control knicker vibrator with 10 vibration modes
- Remote can be programmed and kept at a distance up to 3 meters away
- Contains an extra 2ml We-vibe lubricant sample
Cons
- Only meant for clitoris related stimulation, doesn’t deal with the G-spot
Svakom Ella App Controlled Textured Love Egg Vibrator
Ranked #9
Say Hello to your new best friend Ella, she’s an egg vibrator and she’s always ready to please you with her combination of innocent looks and rumbling vibrations. She offers you 10 different patterns of vibrations and an app-associated ability to please your partner from any distance. You won’t have to think twice about buying her! The aesthetic features and powerful vibrations to soothe your nerve endings are perfect for you.
Made up of soft silicone material with a pretty texture, ready to go inside your intimate parts and please them. Use her with your partner or by yourself, she will prove to be the perfect companion to you.
The distinguishing feature about her is that there is another mode of vibration in the device, called the ‘Climax’ mode which will take the pleasure off the roof.
It is USB rechargeable and should be used with a water-based lubricant if you’re a newbie to sex toys.
Circumference: 4 inches
Length: 8 inches
Insertable Length: 3.5 inches
Power Type: Rechargeable (USB)
Run Time: 2 hours (approx.)
Material: Silicone
Flexibility: Firm
Waterproof: Yes, submersible
Allergens: Latex-Free
Allergens: Phthalate-Free
Pros
- Egg shaped vibrator with a very smooth surface for proper internal stimulation of the nerve endings
- 10 sensational and different vibration patterns available
- Can be used by the controller provided or by the app called the ‘Svakom smartphone app’
Cons
- Provides only 2 hours of run-time in a single charge
LOVENSE Domi Mini Wand Vibrator
Ranked #10
This beautiful LDR sex toy is the perfect match for needs. It has everything you would want to favorite sex to have. Its size is very compact and can be carried anywhere for uninterrupted pleasure. The body is neat and attractive with two vibrating heads.
The best feature of this vibrator is the app it comes with. The users can create their own vibrating patterns and upload in the app and no, the fun doesn’t end here, this app also allows you to sync your favorite music beats with your vibrating patterns to make your adventure even more fascinating. This app has a community like UI where other users like you also upload their uniquely created vibrating patterns and you can totally give them a try. To be very honest, have you even remotely heard of anything as fantastic and exciting as this? I guess no!
The users can enjoy up to 5000 unique vibrations on the LOVENSE app so are you ready to dance to different tones and vibrations alone or with your partner? This product is definitely the deal!
Pros
- Up to 5000 vibrating patterns
- Compact
- Advanced technology
Cons
- Small size, not for people looking for girthy penetrations
- Expensive
Oscillating G-spot Vibrator
Ranked #11
Osci is known to be the world’s best g-spot stimulator. The company has evolved this toy and has come up with an even better version of the same. The new toy OSCI-2 has an even more attractive body and design. It has a longer battery life that guarantees you uninterrupted pleasure. The product now comes with an even better Bluetooth chip to improve the toy’s connectivity with the devices and yours with your partner’s. It now comes with an advanced magnetic charger. OSCI-2 sends even more strong vibrations to your body and can make you come in minutes.
The OSCI-2 has a unique oscillating feature that reaches and delivers pleasure to your g-spot instantly with its unique patterns of vibrations and stimulations.
This app allows the users to enjoy up to 10 Different kinds of vibrations and there are three different levels of the intensity of vibrations that can be set as per the user’s preference.
Waterproof: Yes, submersible
Charging type: (USB)Rechargeable
Battery life: 4.5-5 Hours of Continuous Use
Connection type: Wireless
Total length: 8.66 inches
Insertable length: 2.4 – 3.2 inches
Compatible With:
iPhone/iPad Air/iPad Mini/iPod Touch iOS 9.0 and later
Android 4.3 and later (with Bluetooth 4.0 enabled)
Pros
- Better battery
- Improved Bluetooth connectivity
- Perfect shape for G-spot stimulation
Cons
- Slightly expensive
- Vibrations can be extra powerful which can cause slight discomfort
What are Long-Distance Relationship Sex Toys!
We’ve come a long way, from where we began.
And I’ll warm you up real nice when I see you again…
I bet there are many couples who sleep at night holding and rubbing their pillows between their legs thinking about how they are going to have their partners between their legs instead of their pillows and how it burns their hearts to not be able to have intimacy and sex whenever they want. This is also a reason why many relationships come to an end because the very base of their love, i.e. their physical relationship, is disrupted. Still, there are many people who strive to beat the distance by telling themselves they are going to meet their loved ones soon and that really sucks (a COVID survivor would surely relate).
Just like science, our longings and sex drives have also come a long way ahead of how they were and the market has worked itself to match your heightened pleasures. It’s exactly as if the humans not only worked on increasing their comforts all the way but also worked on increasing their pleasures whichever way possible.
Long-distance relationships suck, but we have something in the store specially designed for you if you are a prey to this kind of a relationship (just because of the distance, your partner is cute, really) Long distance relationship sex toys can really help you make your LDR work better and suck a little less for sure. Sure, there are many toys in the market to please your loins alone but you might consider buying something your partner can be involved in? If yes, LDR sex toys are the deal! These toys not only give you immense pleasure but also make you feel that it’s coming directly from your partner which makes your experience with sex toys even more delightful!
How to use Long Distance Relationship Toys?
We have collected every piece of information that you need to have while using a long-distance relationship sex toy and you are only here to know that using them is a cakewalk.
The LDR sex toys can be connected to a device having an internet connection via an app. They can also be connected to computers via Bluetooth, in case you do not have Bluetooth, buying a USB Bluetooth adapter would serve the deed.
Many LDR apps have in-built chatting and video calling features that can be used while playing with your partner or you can simply connect the toys by the apps and chat or call via another medium of your choice.
You can simply tease your way to get your partner all horny and hungry for sex and ask him to insert the toy inside and the toys will send the very vibrations that your partner would choose for you. Some toys even send feedback to your partner monitoring your movements.
Close-Range Control
The close-range control can be set up in minutes and your smartphone would then be used as a wireless remote control for your toy. You can either use it alone or hand over your phone-cum-remote to your partner and let them make you squirm.
Long-Distance Control
The LDR sex toys’ apps can connect two participants from anywhere across the globe. The users have to simply install the apps in their devices and your partner can be added as a friend and you can give your partner an access to control the toy from their smartphones and enjoy!
Customize Your Vibrations
There is a wide variety of toys and apps that allow you to totally command the kind of pleasure you desire. You can control the intensity of vibrations of your toy. You can even create your own vibrating patterns and routines. Some apps also allow you to mix music beats with your vibrating patterns which makes your experience even more fun. Then there are also many apps which have a whole collection of vibration patterns created by their users and you can download and use them, you can also upload your own patterns and make the other users know what a sass you truly are!
Indeed, the technology has peaked at heights and it is now helping us in peaking our orgasms to unimaginable heights. Why not give this a try…!